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Date: 2006-05-16 11:40 (UTC)I'd love to be kept updated, as this has a high relevance to my own work for the poly community here in Toronto. Will you be posting updates on the situation to this journal, or do I need to subscribe to polyboston to watch as this all unfolds?
Good luck! *hugs*
p.s. I have to say that one of the reasons why I think the diesel social was so successful at first was that it was every week, same time, same place -- easy to remember. Moving it around may prove to be a nightmare. Had you considered simply finding a new venue?
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Date: 2006-05-16 11:57 (UTC)I’d love for the socials to float or rotate, and for a discussion group or similar more-controlled situation to be the regular reliable weekly event. (But of course that’s just my own preference which other people may not share.)
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Date: 2006-05-16 15:11 (UTC)Ooo, you used the 'a' word. I'm a journalist, so theoretically, I can't be an activist. ;)
I'd definitely like to be on the meta list, and for now it might be good to be on the other lists as well so I can see how this all unfolds (unless you think most of the discussion will be on the meta list). My email is my username at freaknation.com.
In terms of the socials being too successful... I think it depends on your goals. Generally, my goal is to foster a cohesive poly community where strong ties of friendship exist, as a foundation towards bigger and better things, a support network, etc. Um. I have a LOT more to say about this, but suffice it to say that for MY purposes, the socials are just right. Later I might try to ADD other things in addition, but I think the regular point of contact that the socials can provide is essential for a cohesive community.
BTW, are you coming to 9ICB?
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Date: 2006-05-17 01:01 (UTC)The ones at the Diesel are good and enjoyable (much of the time), but they’ve just gotten too big, and since they are noisy and crowded and a bit raucous, they have grown to attract people who like that atmosphere and drive away people who don’t. That wouldn’t bug me if there were lots of viable alternatives, but there aren’t really, because the other events (except for the dinners I occasionally organize, and the Queer Poly Women’s group) have sort of fallen off the calendar. That’s as much my “fault” as anybody’s, because I was the person who used to host a lot of them, but the fact is that there are a lot of people who used to come to Poly Boston events (including the Diesel, when it was a smaller group) who don’t come any more.
So, yeah, the social part of it is a big part of what I want, too, but the Tuesday gatherings are not serving that function as well as they once did, nor is the Poly Boston calendar as a whole (in my opinion, and I’d be happy to have people disagree with me).
Also, lots of people have said that the Tuesday socials are at best intimidating and at worst really unwelcoming for newcomers, and that makes me sad.Absolutely. No argument there.Alas, no. The summer’s just too crowded.
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Date: 2006-05-16 12:31 (UTC)what happened? could you forward me a copy? i'm curious.
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Date: 2006-05-16 12:43 (UTC)Anyway, glad to have informed you, I guess. :-) And thanks for the anti-Céline-Dion smooches.
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Date: 2006-05-16 14:18 (UTC)It still amazes me how closed-minded the Boston press is.
I mean, really now.
Really folks.
Get a clue.
(p.s. you looked really happy in Hawaii!)